owning love

I thought love was a fairytale that it only exist in our dreams, i never imagined that love is everywhere. inside our lives, love exist.In our families love exist. When we walk around the streets of the biggest cities of the world love exists. but a question linger in my mind how do we own it? and make it part of has. How can we control love?yet we see love around us, between two people,between a mother and her child, between God and his people. love is patient, love does not envy. if you can defined love then you have the clue on how to own love.